Wednesday, November 2, 2011

National Adoption Month!!

So it's November and it's National Adoption Month!  Yay!  I am super excited...more then I was last year!  So, I have decided to take the challenge and blog about something about adoption just about every day!  I cannot promise it will be every day but I am going to try!  It's so hard to know where to begin!!!  Hhhhhmmmmmm...I am racking my brain trying to think of a good place...

I think I should start with what I have learned over the last year about adoption...which has helped me go through the grieving process in a healthy way.  1st I learned that I did NOT give my baby up for adoption...I PLACED her for adoption.  I did Not give her away like a toy...I didn't throw her away like a piece of trash...I did not forget about her either!  Never will!  She is a part of me no matter what she chooses.

I have also learned that adoption is NOT an event...it is a process!  And a process I will never stop going through.  A process that will always be a big part of me.  It is something that I don't have to 'get over', it is something I don't have to keep quiet about.  I am proud to be a birthmom!  And nothing can change how I feel about that!  I don't care what people think about me!  No one can judge me or my choices!

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